Bookee's Thots

I was just wondering...Why can't a lady walk up to a guy that she loves so so dearly and ask him out? Why do ladies have to love and die in silence when all they need to do is just walk up to the one and say 'I love you'? Oh, so a man is the head. Apologies to those that see me as a feminist (Phemnahs - www.phemnahs.blogspot.com ; Bayo Atunwa). I'm not one. I'm just asking out of curiousity. I'm just thinking. What's wrong in a lady being the head of a family (they do it in Ghana)? Just thinking. (I choose not to be that anyway. I want my husband to be the man and not me. I love being pampered, spoilt and I can't get that if I'm the man - Just just thinking). Why should the man be the provider or bread winner, as the case may be? Why should it be the lady who has to please the in-laws and it is the other way round for the guys? I'm just thinking...Share your thoughts and comments.

Ouch! It's really been a busy week. It all started last week Thursday, August 21, when I was busy preparing for Tayo and Daniel's engagement, slated for Friday, August 22. I got to the office very late that day. Thank God my boss was not in town, if not, it would have been 'heaven'. And then on Friday, I didn't go to the office at all... And then this week, I've been busy trying to catch up on all the days I didn't work. So, the work load's been much since Monday. Opps...Thank God it's Friday... We had the engagement in Surulere. It was 'sizzling'. Fun, to say the least. I, really, am happy for Temitayo Ponmile and Daniel Peters...They were both 'beautiful' that day. Hmm. Eyin iyawo o ni mo eni o..Amin. The wedding comes up September 6, 2008. See ya there (LOL). I'm gonna be besting Tayo and so, I'd be very very busy. Try and see me now if u need anything ooo. (Laughs). Ok. Let's think. Love is great and beautiful. You&

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A store that sells husbands has just opened in New York City , where a woman may go to choose a husband.Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates: Welcome to the Husband Store!! You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the Shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch... you may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building! Happy Shopping!!! So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband... Floor 1: These men have jobs and love the Lord. Floor 2: These men have jobs, love the Lord, and like kids. Floor 3: These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids and are extremely good looking. 'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads: Floor 4: These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead good looking

A friend forwarded this to me…It’s very funny, that’s why I’m sharing it here. Is this how it should be??? In the world of romance, one single rule applies to the men: Make the woman happy. Do something she likes and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted. You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played. Here is a guide to the point system: Simple Duties 1. You make the bed (+1) 2. You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0) 3. You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1) 4. You go out to buy her what she wants (+5) In the rain (+8) But return with Beer (-5) 5. You check out a suspicious noise at night (0) 6. You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (0) 7. You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5) 8. You pummel it with iron rod (+10) 9. It's her pet (-50) Social Engagements 1. You stay by her side the entire party (0) 2. You stay by her side

Ideas to Bring out the Romantic in You Want to make your love life more romantic? Even the most ardent lover can use romantic inspiration. Whether you're about to go on your honeymoon, a romantic getaway, or spending time alone together at home, adding a romantic touch will help to put both of you in a vacation mood. Try some of these 40 romantic ideas and ignite your next vacation: 1. Get away from it all 2. Celebrate an anniversary — any anniversary — with an anniversary trip 3. Expect the best — but get it for less 4. Order breakfast from room service — and don't leave the room all day (for honeymooners) 5. Stock your own surprise in the minibar 6. "Hello, room service? Send up a bottle of your best Champagne , two flutes, and a strawberry delicacy" 7. Schedule a romantic dinner 8. Tell her how beautiful she is or how handsome he looks 9. Turn off the TV in your room; better yet, don't turn it on at all 10. Make a big de

When Unclothed Is Unfitting >>Thoughts on Selling with Sex By John Piper Jonathan Edwards once said that godly people can, as it were, smell the depravity of an act before they can explain why it is evil. There is a spiritual sense that something is amiss. It does not fit in a world permeated with God. Ephesians 5:3 says that some things “are not fitting” among saints.” “Fitting-ness” is not always easy to justify with arguments. You discern it before you can defend it. That’s good, because we have to make hundreds of choices every day with no time for extended reflection. But from time to time we need to pause and give rational, biblical expression why something is not fitting. Some years ago I came to that point when, week after week, a local newspaper put scantily clad women on the second page of Section A in order to sell underclothes. I wrote a letter to the paper with nine reasons why they should stop using this kind of advertising. Perhaps my reflection